Showing posts with label endure. Show all posts
Showing posts with label endure. Show all posts

Friday, April 30, 2010

He's HOME!



Bill is HOME!! I can't tell you how happy that makes us!

Yesterday was filled with lots of time changes and lots of little frustrations. The time kept getting earlier and earlier. This is good in a way since that meant we were going to get Bill home sooner, but it also meant waking the boys up at 2 am and going to Ft Hood in the middle of the night. It also meant no special outfits and really more of a just get there and get it over with. The rear detachment wanted the families in the gym at 2:30am. This ended up being way too early. Nothing like the Army way of "hurry up and wait." Any military family can appreciate what that really means! We were there for 1.5 hours before we saw our soldiers. I did get a text from Bill at 2:26am that they were successfully on the ground at Gray Army Airfield. But just because they were on the ground did not mean that they were on their way. They had to turn in weapons and load bags, etc. So they had us at the gym which was mildly warmer than is comfortable. They gave us lousy snacks and had a DJ. The floor was filthy. The kids were so good for the first hour of our wait. But that was their threshold. Who can blame them? I was getting impatient, too. But finally the buses arrived to cheers. Bill's unit was to be the last ones in the gym and we saw him walk in. And then Ian took off after him so I had to chase him. Poor kid. I wanted to run after Bill, too, but you know the Army. They make everything have some sort of formality. So I did manage to catch him and heard the chuckles from the wives behind me knowing that if their kids were any younger that they would have been doing just what I had done. LOL.

The short address of the soldiers was nothing short of lame. The speaker didn't even say my husband's unit correctly. I mean if that doesn't put a bad taste in your mouth then I don't know. So he finally said "Released!" Ian ran. He ran right to Bill and jumped. It was sweet and then Bill came toward Aaron and I and grabbed Aaron, too. It was so great to see him. So we relished the moment for a few and then started our way out of the gym. We put the kids in the car and Bill went to retrieve his duffle bag. Then it was homeward bound!!

It almost doesn't seem real. Aaron has warmed up pretty well. He didn't cry, but was a little hesitant. He seems to be much better today, but still prefers me. Even Ian, who is overtired, is still preferring me. (Much to Mommy's relief!) We have had a fairly laid back day. Lunch at a local eaterie and then a trip to the commissary on a payday during a case lot sale. (We were definitely NOT thinking on that one!) Then home for naps!
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Monday, November 23, 2009

Learning to Be Just Plain Thankful

I've been a bit bummed about the upcoming holidays. To be honest, I was hoping they'd go by unnoticed and that we could just forget that they even exist. Facing this holiday season with Bill in Afghanistan and the knowledge that the boys and I are "stuck" in Texas alone really seemed to suck all the spirit out of the entire season.

Then I got sick.

It was through the illness that I got the little kick that I needed to quit being so ingrateful and thankless.

God reminded me that He never gives us more than we can endure. I was so sick and barely able to make it to the bathroom and yet somehow I could muster the last ounce of energy I had to get the boys' basic needs taken care of without them suffering, too. He carried me through this 48 hour period. I survived to tell about it.

Just as I endured the illness, I will get through this holiday season. The boys and I will be just fine and way better off than most. We have a roof over our head, food to eat and the love of friends and family. We have so much to be thankful for and we have many reasons to celebrate. It might not be the way that we would have planned it had circumstances been different, but it can still be lovely.

Happy Thanksgiving!